Self Responsibility

Self-Responsibility: Reclaiming the Authorship of Your Life Connecting the dots while looking backward, I can clearly see the dramatic difference between the seasons of my life when I made excuses and avoided ownership—and the moment I fully embraced self-responsibility. When I blamed circumstances, people, or fate, I was not in the pilot seat of my... Continue Reading →

January 19, 2026 0

Self Responsibility in order to Regain Control

Self-Responsibility vs. Dependence on OthersI’ve often reflected on what I call the two within — the seeming duality we live by. Yet, at the core, I believe there is only love within us. The concept of two — love and fear, light and dark, God and devil — may simply be something we’ve created to... Continue Reading →

November 10, 2025 0

What if we’re the Problem?

Sometimes we have elaborate excuses camouflaged as reasons for things going wrong. Maybe the project failed. Maybe your plan was ruined by unforeseen issues. Maybe finances haven't been realized as you planned. Or whatever. We are really good at pointing out where the fault came from. We have a keen eye for why things went... Continue Reading →

September 26, 2023 0

How to Drive Real and Authentic Change in your Life

Junior was 8 years old and seemed to always have an excuse for everything. Anytime that constructive criticism or reprimand was given to him there was always someone to blame but himself. Junior grew anxious and sad because things would just not go his way most of the time. It was usually his brothers fault,... Continue Reading →