While on my run last night I wondered what my obituary would say. I thought about asking someone to write one for me to see. Immediately I thought that would be pretty egotistical. It felt as if I would be begging for good things to say about me. So I asked myself the question. Can... Continue Reading →
How to change your life in one single moment
Change your life in a single moment That's right. I have the secret of changing your entire life in one single moment. How do I know this? Because I did it myself. Since that single moment, I have acquired a career, a stable relationship, established a home, recreated my entire mindset, walked a completely different... Continue Reading →
Adam’s Corner – Resilience
Resilience You bust your behind hard enough, long enough, you don't complain, you grow daily, you earn every bit of your life. Life begins to feel like it should. Then the floor falls off from under your feet and you find yourself in a place you never expected to ever be. The comeback of that... Continue Reading →
I hear voices
There's a main voice we constantly hear in our heads. Then there's the many voices that sound like a loud bar with bad music. We usually have both sets of voices. What is your morning routine? The voice you hear asking you that question and the one narrating your agenda is the voice we constantly... Continue Reading →
Ikigai in Progress
What the world needs. We need wonderersWe need thinkersWe need philosophersWe need guidesWe need mentorsWe need to be studentsWe need to become learnersWe need big brothersWe need to be gratefulWe need to be disciplinedWe need lovers of wisdomWe need to have the talks no one is havingWe need to take responsibility for it allWe need... Continue Reading →
Bio?
Do I need a Bio? What does my Bio even look like? Well…. I guess it would look a little like this, What I look like and who I am doesn't fit in a box. Standing at 6'5'' and weighing in at 275 lbs I stand out a bit. I try not to, but when... Continue Reading →
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Introduction to An Atoms Journey, lessons from a Higher Consciousness
Like many children, I had fantastic parents, great older siblings, and a wonderful family. My childhood was pretty average; good and challenging times, but nothing uniquely different from a normal childhood. I was raised in a very uncomplicated place in simpler times. I didn’t have much, but I didn’t lack anything. I love the simplicity... Continue Reading →
What a Year – 2022
2022 has been full of surprises, blessings, challenges and adventures. I cannot ask for much more in my life (although I still do) I have a fantastic life. Enough love around me for a few lifetimes, friendships and bonds that I've been blessed to encounter throughout the years, challenges just enough to keep me on... Continue Reading →
Addiction
Addiction is such a powerful force. It can and will take your soul if you allow it. Take it from me, I have plenty of experience with addiction. I've had so many bad habits throughout my life. Some of those habits were addictions.The first addiction I can think of was having a victim mentality. I... Continue Reading →
Everyday Wisdom
1. Be fair - be fair to yourself, your family, peers, supervisors, etc. If you focus on being fair, you'll generally make the best decision available. Some decisions are not set in stone, they change depending on circumstances therefore remain fair to make the best decision. 2. Earn everything - anything you work hard for,... Continue Reading →
Resentment
According to Oxford Dictionary it is bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly.Very likely up there with carrying hate and anger. One must try at all cost to avoid this feeling. Unlike pain and fear, resentment has zero positive effects on the front or back end. It's is very similar to stress, it just eats... Continue Reading →
Be inconsistent in order to be consistent
For many years I've been extremely honest with myself and have kept true to myself. This wasn't always the case. Some 20 years ago or so I decided to plant my seed down, stay true to my goals and learn as much as possible in my choice of career. Although I had a great work... Continue Reading →
Atom’s Journey
Update: This little bedtime story has been rewritten and expanded into a published book. Enjoy An Atom's Journey: Lessons from a higher consciousness https://a.co/d/0lLgMuP Having children is one of the most enlightened experiences one can have. In teaching we learn and sometimes we even surprise ourselves in explaining certain aspects of life. Many years ago... Continue Reading →
Whose Fanning your flame?
If you're out there trying to become the best version of yourself possible, it is likely that you seem like an obsessed person. Good! That means you're not settling for the norms and that you're passionate about your goal and desire to achieve success in your life. When we're competing in a team sport or... Continue Reading →
Food for Thought
Push through the challenges in life Put your head down and run further than you think possible in every situation Life isn't always easy, it's never been meant to be easy, it just is You need to spend a lot of time by yourself in order to make sense out of the internal constant noise,... Continue Reading →
Another Failure
I know that's a heck of a title. I'm a big believer in the saying by Norman Vincent Peale — 'Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.' I have a reputation for setting some very high goals. Usually personal goals so if I fail they don't hurt anyone else.... Continue Reading →
How do I get motivated?
Most of the nuggets of wisdom that I come in contact with are usually from self talk. After a busy days worth of work and frustrations I asked myself the question, How do I get myself motivated? Then I realize that I'm asking the wrong question. The right question is, how do I build the... Continue Reading →
Practice is Perfect
Too many of us expect to tweak our normal routine and immediately see results. The truth is that most of the time we won't see results for quite a while. All my life I've heard, practice makes perfect. Yet again this is one of those erroneous beliefs we must unlearn. Many years ago I identified... Continue Reading →
To Fear or not to Fear
I've read and heard this quote a million times and yet, I just don't agree with it. I fear failure, maybe because I'm still in the game of life and not just talking about the past. I say, be fearful, be scared shitless of failing. It keeps you on your feet. Keeps your heart pumping.... Continue Reading →
Humbleness – to be or not to be
I've heard and read since I was very young that we should be humble. Now, this can cause lots of confusion because we as human beings can be so great and so poor at language.We must be confident in life in order to have a greater chance to succeed, yet not cocky. The basic differences... Continue Reading →
How to Drive Real and Authentic Change in your Life
Junior was 8 years old and seemed to always have an excuse for everything. Anytime that constructive criticism or reprimand was given to him there was always someone to blame but himself. Junior grew anxious and sad because things would just not go his way most of the time. It was usually his brothers fault,... Continue Reading →
Harmony between our spirit and our body
Let's imagine that before we got to this beautiful green earth that we were spiritual beings. Let's pretend that we were the invisible: the Spirit, the Heart, the Mind, the Soul that we all deep down know we are. To keep it short let's call it simply the spirit. Furthermore, to top it off let's... Continue Reading →
I Raised My Standards
Ones upon a time I had a huge void within. This void attracted anything and everything without judgement, without prescreening, and without any requirements. I wholeheartedly believe that many people have had this exact feeling at some point or another and quite possibly still feeling it. Through this time in my life I needed "friends"... Continue Reading →
Physical, mental and emotional pain
We often run away from anything painful. We usually avoid emotional, physical and mental pain. We seek out comfort. Although for safety reasons that all makes sense, when we study the great folks who have achieved great success and wisdom they usually have something in common. They went through a great deal of emotional, mental... Continue Reading →
What to do when you don’t feel like giving 100%
In life we all know that we must work really hard for a really long time in order to achieve any kind of success in all our endeavors. Although many times we put in 100% from the beginning of the day until wend of the day there are times when we just don't feel like... Continue Reading →
Patience or effort?
Nobody wants to live with regrets. However we often refrain from taking chances that could lead us to a brighter tomorrow. We too often make excuses for ourselves with, "well I might have not met such and such or had my kids, etc." What if the truth is that you could've optimized your life and... Continue Reading →
From Abolishing Religion to Adopting Them All
Disclaimer To the religious ones, please read until the end before you judge. This may make so much sense to you. To the non-believer, please read until the end before you judge.This may make so much sense to you. Today in church I came to the conclusion that our relation to God may be the... Continue Reading →