Don’t you wish you knew some of the things you know now sooner in life?
Would it make a difference?
In my case yes, no, and maybe.
Yes I wish I knew some things sooner for example that the food I eat can prevent diabetes, cancer, heart disease, obesity, and all kinds of unnecessary health illnesses.
No and maybe because although I knew working out and studying hard would make me more successful, it didn’t really make a difference at the time.
I truly believe that if my parents really understood the implications of the food they fed us and kept in our kitchens that they would make better choices for our sake. But I think they thought they were doing their best feeding us a well balanced American diet.
Now a days we have so much information at our fingertips that we can see the well balanced American diet is the leading cause of heart disease, diabetes, obesity, etc. Yesterday I was dumb founded as I read in the China Study that Chinese folks eat many more calories than us in general yet they’re slimmer than us and lack our diseases all because of what they eat as opposed to what we eat. I was also reading how Japanese eat double and sometimes triple the carbs we eat yet again, slimmer and healthier.
It’s not our parents fault, they just didn’t know better. Sure, they knew candy and junk food wasn’t healthy but they didn’t think it could cause huge implications as we now know. Processed foods have always been cheaper and last longer, it made sense to buy these, plus our government told us this was part of a well balanced diet.
Not as a parent, it may not be my fault that this diet is still represented as a well balanced diet, but it is my responsibility to teach my boys that they need to do better for themselves.
Some folks may even say something like “let them live.” My answer to that is that that’s precisely what I’m trying to do. I was reading how many of these diseases are genetic. It was showing how literally how your grandmother ate, affected the genes in which your mother carried before creating you, then between her mother’s diet issues affecting her genes and her own diet, affected the genes in which you carry. You can’t help what your mother or grandmother ate but you can literally change the gene strands of your grandchildren with the foods you choose to eat now. That’s insane. I honestly believe that if our parents knew this, they would have made better choices.
I can look the other way on many things for the sake of avoiding conflict. But for the love and care of my children this is one thing I can’t ignore.
Should I be selfish and knowingly harm my children and their children for the sake of enjoying potato chips, ice cream, and candy?
Maybe I’m completely wrong. The science sure isn’t. Maybe my kids will make bad choices wether I teach them better. Or maybe I can lengthen their lives by a few more years with all their limbs and without dialysis or cancer.
Maybe

Food is at the centre of climate change, so changes are welcome. Thank you 🙏🌍
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The way I see it all things in moderation a treat once a week never harmed anyone as long as it’s not over the top binging. Also kind of in the same theme . Is there such thing as a picky child?
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I’m a proponent of moderation as well. Although, it is just scary what junk food is made of now a days. Ignorance is bliss but now knowing better, we should really, do better.
Picky child? Ha ha yes, I have three of them. Nevertheless, they’ll eat a huge salad, brown rice and beans or any raw vegetables including potatoes at any given time. They can be picky, but as parents it’s all a matter of what you keep available in order to build their pallets.
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I agree fully as long as they try stuff before they say they don’t like it and make an informed choice then that’s fine but when mothers say a 3 year old is picky can you really believe that?
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Many kids may not like something the first few times but it’s on us to make sure our kids eat good stuff. My kid is picky is fine so long as it isn’t an excuse to allow a child to decide what they eat. Otherwise all they’ll want is salty, sweet, and fatty food. Oh wow, maybe that’s why the US is the most obese country in the world…. 😲🥴😜
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Yeah all this oh they will only eat blah blah blah or I have to cook 5 meals for my 5 kids because they won’t eat anything else. I was taught eat what you are given and if you don’t you don’t you will go hungry or sit there until it’s finished. If more people adopted that attitude I’m sure we would have healthier children. And they don’t learn anything in school anymore. I heard something the other day that made me shake my head.. some children were asked where fish fingers came from 6 out of ten said chicken the other 4 said the freezer
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That’s sad. I have told many, they teach you what to think in schools, we as parents teach them how to think.
Unfortunately, too many parents are letting education be led by schools and YouTube solely then they get mad when their kids don’t perform in the real world
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It’s not the schools that are the problem it’s people saying what can be taught in them . Like the recent idiocy that stories written years ago should be rewritten I don’t know how old you are but enid blyton was a go-to for me as a 6 to 7 year old It is now deemed “too adult”
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Yup. Welcome to the cancel generation.. it makes no sense. I get we may had too rough a time growing up. I grew up with corporate punishment by teachers so some reform is ok but c’mon now. Folks have cancelled Pepe Le Pew for forcing himself to his crush…. damn, if only we would chase after the same woman for 50 years in love, the world would be a better place
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Lol yes if only. Yet they still allow bugs to blow up Marvin! Go figure I don’t even understand half the kids shows these days do you ?
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Not even a little bit. I did enjoy paw patrol with my last little ones. Much better than Barney or Teletubbies with my oldest
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Hey don’t knock Barney! He’s older than either of us ! And I’m 51
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They should teach you how to think not what to think
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I agree but that’s why we as parents have to intervene and make sure our kiddos are getting educated and not brainwashed
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