One of the most sobering and transformative lessons I’ve come to learn—whether in my personal walk or professional path—is the quiet but powerful truth that life flows better when we expect less from others and focus instead on how we can add value to them. Expectation is a subtle trap. The more we expect, the... Continue Reading →
Dualism
The Illusion of Dualism It’s easy to be swept up by the words of someone who touches a nerve within us—someone who says something that resonates just enough to make us stop thinking critically. We begin nodding along, and soon we’re embracing not just the truth we felt, but everything else that person or group... Continue Reading →
What if?
My wife once asked me, with gentle curiosity, why I return so often to the subject of God. It is a fair question. I do not consider myself a religious man—at least not in the formal, doctrinal sense. Much of my life has been lived in the long shadow of strict religion, and I have seen how dogma... Continue Reading →
My Personal Breakthrough may be new but the idea of it is not
As I was driving one day, a revelation struck me with the force of a thunderclap—an insight so powerful it seemed to pierce through every layer of doubt and confusion. It arrived not randomly, but in the stillness that followed deep prayer, meditation, and reflection on the nature of prayer itself. In that moment, it... Continue Reading →
Creating Connection with the Truest Self
There are many paths to rediscovering our truest self—our higher self, our best self. But among them, two stand out in their simplicity and profound impact: **to be intentional about creating connection**—and just as importantly, **to avoid creating disconnection.** It begins with intention. Intention is the silent architect of inner reality. To live with intention... Continue Reading →
Understanding God — Who and What God Is
If you were to ask a horse what God looks like, he would likely describe a being that resembles a horse—four-legged, strong, familiar. And perhaps in that image lies a quiet truth: that we, like all sentient beings, shape our conception of the Divine according to our own form. It is natural, even instinctive, to... Continue Reading →
The Forgotten Self
A Parable of Separation Truth is not something that can be dragged into the mind and tethered by logic. It cannot be fully explained, only experienced. The wisest among us—those sages, mystics, and awakened souls—have long understood this. That is why they spoke in parables and painted truth with story, not argument. For truth, when... Continue Reading →
The Whisper Within
Rethinking Prayer Beyond Words Prayer, in its truest form, is one of the most intimate acts a soul can undertake. It is not merely a ritual or a petition to a faraway deity in the sky—it is a dialogue, a dying, and a revealing. A sacred act of peeling back the layers of the self,... Continue Reading →
The Two Within
Let Thy Will Be Done There is a quiet realm where the seen and unseen meet—a place nestled not in the clouds or the cosmos, but deep within the folds of human consciousness. It is here that a gentle tension exists, a sacred paradox between two selves: one born of dust, the other of light.... Continue Reading →
WHEN AND HOW TO CHANGE
WHEN AND HOW TO CHANGE There comes a time in every person’s life—certainly in a man’s life—when they reach a breaking point—a moment when the status quo is no longer sustainable. When something has to change—and change drastically, it's in that moment of reckoning that we face ourselves, realizing we are losing the battle and... Continue Reading →
Dad
For so many years, Dad, my heart cried out in anger, a child’s voice echoing through time, asking why you left when I was still so young, so unready. I felt abandoned, and in my pain, I mistook silence for absence, grief for injustice. I thought I’d done something wrong. I couldn’t understand why love... Continue Reading →
The Soul University
My 3rd and latest book so far was an amazing journey to write. With a very busy schedule I mostly dictated this book to my phone's speech to text notes and late nights after work I would edit it. Below I share my last chapter with you. Commencement Speech As we reach the close of... Continue Reading →
Be Great Only This Moment
Many people see me as a great man, an amazing father, a fantastic leader, and more. They sum up the small moments and decisions I make, crafting an image of who they believe I am. But here's the truth: I don’t strive to be “great” in any particular role. I don’t aim to be a... Continue Reading →
When and How to Change
There comes a time in every person’s life—certainly in a man’s life—when they reach a breaking point. A moment when the status quo is no longer sustainable, when something has to change, and change drastically. It's in that moment of reckoning that we face ourselves, realizing we are losing the battle and heading down a... Continue Reading →
Stress, Depression, and More
Stress: A Reflection Stress is a universal experience, touching nearly every aspect of modern life. For many, it’s an ever-present force, shaped by the expectations and circumstances we face: Some have demanding jobs that require constant attention. Some men feel the weight of the world on their shoulders. Some women grapple with the pressure to... Continue Reading →
A Shift in Consciousness
To master life, a profound shift in consciousness is essential. Fear is tied to the illusion of time—it thrives in the past and the future. We clutter our minds with noise and flee from solitude, treating it as though it were something to avoid at all costs. To find balance, we must ground ourselves. Embrace... Continue Reading →
Choices
Every day is filled with choices. That realization has always resonated deeply with me. Life, in its essence, is about choosing your "hard." Divorce is hard. Marriage is hard. Eating healthy is hard. Living with diabetes is hard. Pursuing fitness is hard. Battling disease is hard. Working diligently is hard. Struggling without a home is... Continue Reading →
Train your mind
The "I’ve arrived" mentality is incredibly dangerous—it cannot be overstated. To achieve greatness, you must actively manage your mind. You must trick it, discipline it, and use repetition to guide it. But never assume your mind will automatically make the right choices. The mind is a remarkable tool, like a powerful computer, but it needs... Continue Reading →
Do Hard Stuff
How does stepping into unfamiliar or challenging situations contribute to personal growth and confidence? Why is overcoming the fear of failure and judgment essential for achieving significant goals? What role does perseverance play in transforming small efforts into monumental accomplishments? How can tackling difficult tasks reshape one’s mindset and diminish the power of fear? What... Continue Reading →
Biohacking Autopilot
How do moments of epiphany and heightened awareness shape one's understanding of control and purpose in life? What role does inspiration play in maintaining a state of mental and spiritual clarity, and how can it be intentionally cultivated? How does the act of questioning oneself contribute to personal growth and self-discovery? What is the significance... Continue Reading →
You are Enough
Questions to Reflect Upon: How often do we find ourselves questioning our worth because of external pressures to change? What if our imperfections are simply opportunities for growth rather than indicators of inadequacy? How can we begin to see the greatness within ourselves, just as the butterfly holds its potential within the caterpillar? In what... Continue Reading →
Daily Beginnings
1. How does the concept of daily renewal influence the way we approach personal growth and self-improvement? 2. What is the significance of balancing reflection on the past with planning for the future in creating a meaningful life? 3. How can viewing life as a cycle of endings and beginnings help us navigate challenges and... Continue Reading →
New Year’s Gratitude
As another year draws to a close, I feel blessed to reflect on the journey behind me and set intentions for the one ahead. Today, sitting in church, I realized how often we’re eager to leave the past year behind, looking to January 1st as a magical reset. But this year, I want to shift... Continue Reading →
The Desire for More
I’ve always felt an insistent urge within me, driving me to reach beyond what I’ve already accomplished. I'm unsure if this desire points to a specific destination or goal, other than the simple wish to achieve more. While I do desire success, I already perceive myself as successful; thus, my longing is not for success... Continue Reading →
Discipline, Effort, and Failure
It’s no secret that achieving anything of value requires immense effort and discipline. Whether you want to become educated, master a trade, or excel in a profession—be it law, medicine, mechanics, or aviation—it demands relentless practice, learning, and dedication. So why should we expect life to be any different? Why not recognize that becoming successful... Continue Reading →
On Friendships
I've often heard about the significance of friendship, both lifelong connections and the value of maintaining a strong social circle. Over the years, I've had the privilege of meeting many incredible people whom I consider friends. Even though we no longer see each other or communicate regularly, these individuals remain the kind of people I'd... Continue Reading →
Language and Intuition
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God. This is how the Old Testament begins, and how the New Testament echoes its profound truth. There is a deep significance in this focus on language, communication, and understanding—an acknowledgment of its foundational role in our existence. Language, as I consider it here,... Continue Reading →
Is there a God – Who is God?
The question of God—Who is God? Does God exist?—has been a persistent thread in everything I’ve written and contemplated. It is a question that tugs at my thoughts, lingering as one of the deepest mysteries of existence. I understand the agnostic perspective: the belief that the existence of a god or a higher power is... Continue Reading →
Our Creation
I like to believe that we were created as a miraculous means for God herself to experience life through us, as human beings. Ancient scriptures, including the Bible, suggest that we are not the first beings of our kind. Historical texts and spiritual writings imply that we are a product of evolution, designed to surpass... Continue Reading →
Progress
The Tree of Life: A Reflection on Progress and Purpose Life can be likened to a tree. The seed represents birth, the work is life itself, and the harvest is death. At the heart of this cycle is the word: Progress. Progress is not just movement—it is fulfillment. Progress equals happiness. Many people search for... Continue Reading →
