Rethinking Prayer Beyond Words Prayer, in its truest form, is one of the most intimate acts a soul can undertake. It is not merely a ritual or a petition to a faraway deity in the sky—it is a dialogue, a dying, and a revealing. A sacred act of peeling back the layers of the self,... Continue Reading →
The Two Within
Let Thy Will Be Done There is a quiet realm where the seen and unseen meet—a place nestled not in the clouds or the cosmos, but deep within the folds of human consciousness. It is here that a gentle tension exists, a sacred paradox between two selves: one born of dust, the other of light.... Continue Reading →
WHEN AND HOW TO CHANGE
WHEN AND HOW TO CHANGE There comes a time in every person’s life—certainly in a man’s life—when they reach a breaking point—a moment when the status quo is no longer sustainable. When something has to change—and change drastically, it's in that moment of reckoning that we face ourselves, realizing we are losing the battle and... Continue Reading →
Dad
For so many years, Dad, my heart cried out in anger, a child’s voice echoing through time, asking why you left when I was still so young, so unready. I felt abandoned, and in my pain, I mistook silence for absence, grief for injustice. I thought I’d done something wrong. I couldn’t understand why love... Continue Reading →
The Soul University
My 3rd and latest book so far was an amazing journey to write. With a very busy schedule I mostly dictated this book to my phone's speech to text notes and late nights after work I would edit it. Below I share my last chapter with you. Commencement Speech As we reach the close of... Continue Reading →
Be Great Only This Moment
Many people see me as a great man, an amazing father, a fantastic leader, and more. They sum up the small moments and decisions I make, crafting an image of who they believe I am. But here's the truth: I don’t strive to be “great” in any particular role. I don’t aim to be a... Continue Reading →
When and How to Change
There comes a time in every person’s life—certainly in a man’s life—when they reach a breaking point. A moment when the status quo is no longer sustainable, when something has to change, and change drastically. It's in that moment of reckoning that we face ourselves, realizing we are losing the battle and heading down a... Continue Reading →
Stress, Depression, and More
Stress: A Reflection Stress is a universal experience, touching nearly every aspect of modern life. For many, it’s an ever-present force, shaped by the expectations and circumstances we face: Some have demanding jobs that require constant attention. Some men feel the weight of the world on their shoulders. Some women grapple with the pressure to... Continue Reading →
A Shift in Consciousness
To master life, a profound shift in consciousness is essential. Fear is tied to the illusion of time—it thrives in the past and the future. We clutter our minds with noise and flee from solitude, treating it as though it were something to avoid at all costs. To find balance, we must ground ourselves. Embrace... Continue Reading →
Choices
Every day is filled with choices. That realization has always resonated deeply with me. Life, in its essence, is about choosing your "hard." Divorce is hard. Marriage is hard. Eating healthy is hard. Living with diabetes is hard. Pursuing fitness is hard. Battling disease is hard. Working diligently is hard. Struggling without a home is... Continue Reading →
Train your mind
The "I’ve arrived" mentality is incredibly dangerous—it cannot be overstated. To achieve greatness, you must actively manage your mind. You must trick it, discipline it, and use repetition to guide it. But never assume your mind will automatically make the right choices. The mind is a remarkable tool, like a powerful computer, but it needs... Continue Reading →
Do Hard Stuff
How does stepping into unfamiliar or challenging situations contribute to personal growth and confidence? Why is overcoming the fear of failure and judgment essential for achieving significant goals? What role does perseverance play in transforming small efforts into monumental accomplishments? How can tackling difficult tasks reshape one’s mindset and diminish the power of fear? What... Continue Reading →
Biohacking Autopilot
How do moments of epiphany and heightened awareness shape one's understanding of control and purpose in life? What role does inspiration play in maintaining a state of mental and spiritual clarity, and how can it be intentionally cultivated? How does the act of questioning oneself contribute to personal growth and self-discovery? What is the significance... Continue Reading →
You are Enough
Questions to Reflect Upon: How often do we find ourselves questioning our worth because of external pressures to change? What if our imperfections are simply opportunities for growth rather than indicators of inadequacy? How can we begin to see the greatness within ourselves, just as the butterfly holds its potential within the caterpillar? In what... Continue Reading →
Daily Beginnings
1. How does the concept of daily renewal influence the way we approach personal growth and self-improvement? 2. What is the significance of balancing reflection on the past with planning for the future in creating a meaningful life? 3. How can viewing life as a cycle of endings and beginnings help us navigate challenges and... Continue Reading →
New Year’s Gratitude
As another year draws to a close, I feel blessed to reflect on the journey behind me and set intentions for the one ahead. Today, sitting in church, I realized how often we’re eager to leave the past year behind, looking to January 1st as a magical reset. But this year, I want to shift... Continue Reading →
The Desire for More
I’ve always felt an insistent urge within me, driving me to reach beyond what I’ve already accomplished. I'm unsure if this desire points to a specific destination or goal, other than the simple wish to achieve more. While I do desire success, I already perceive myself as successful; thus, my longing is not for success... Continue Reading →
Discipline, Effort, and Failure
It’s no secret that achieving anything of value requires immense effort and discipline. Whether you want to become educated, master a trade, or excel in a profession—be it law, medicine, mechanics, or aviation—it demands relentless practice, learning, and dedication. So why should we expect life to be any different? Why not recognize that becoming successful... Continue Reading →
On Friendships
I've often heard about the significance of friendship, both lifelong connections and the value of maintaining a strong social circle. Over the years, I've had the privilege of meeting many incredible people whom I consider friends. Even though we no longer see each other or communicate regularly, these individuals remain the kind of people I'd... Continue Reading →
Language and Intuition
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God. This is how the Old Testament begins, and how the New Testament echoes its profound truth. There is a deep significance in this focus on language, communication, and understanding—an acknowledgment of its foundational role in our existence. Language, as I consider it here,... Continue Reading →
Is there a God – Who is God?
The question of God—Who is God? Does God exist?—has been a persistent thread in everything I’ve written and contemplated. It is a question that tugs at my thoughts, lingering as one of the deepest mysteries of existence. I understand the agnostic perspective: the belief that the existence of a god or a higher power is... Continue Reading →
Our Creation
I like to believe that we were created as a miraculous means for God herself to experience life through us, as human beings. Ancient scriptures, including the Bible, suggest that we are not the first beings of our kind. Historical texts and spiritual writings imply that we are a product of evolution, designed to surpass... Continue Reading →
Progress
The Tree of Life: A Reflection on Progress and Purpose Life can be likened to a tree. The seed represents birth, the work is life itself, and the harvest is death. At the heart of this cycle is the word: Progress. Progress is not just movement—it is fulfillment. Progress equals happiness. Many people search for... Continue Reading →
The Power of Awareness and Conditioning
The Awareness of ConditioningOne of the most profound lessons I learned during my early years at Seoul University was the realization that I am a conditioned being. My environment, experiences, and upbringing shaped much of who I am. However, what truly unlocked wisdom and personal power was the awareness that I could choose my conditioning.... Continue Reading →
Do we inherently have purpose?
Is purpose truly essential to life? While I’m uncertain if purpose is something innate to the human condition, I can’t deny that it makes the journey far more engaging and fulfilling. Without a clear “why,” one can easily feel like they’re wandering aimlessly through a maze with no end in sight. It’s like throwing darts... Continue Reading →
The Soul University: A Journey of Transformation
Unveiling the Patterns Life often appears to unfold through a series of random coincidences. Yet, as I’ve grown older, what once seemed like chance has revealed itself as a pattern—a tapestry of events interconnected in ways that only time and reflection can unveil. The Oxford Dictionary defines coincidence as "a remarkable concurrence of events or... Continue Reading →
How to Surrender
I often wrestle with the tension between surrendering to the divine within us and taking control through the ego. There are times when I tell myself I am surrendering, yet deep down, I sense it is my ego pretending to let go while still holding the reins. Meditation, I believe, plays a vital role in... Continue Reading →
Thriving together
As I move through this extraordinary world, I have come to believe that most people genuinely desire to do good. I see a shared yearning to foster unity and grow together. Yet, paradoxically, I also see many unintentionally fostering division in the name of unity and community, undermining their very goals. Religions, philosophies, ideologies, and... Continue Reading →
The Struggle is Real
Repetition is the mother of discipline. Through monotonous action we grow and learn. Yet, in life, logic often fails us. Early in our journeys—whether at The Soul University or elsewhere—we grapple with uncertainty, questioning the nature of our struggles. Life feels like an uphill battle, a truth encapsulated in the phrase, "The struggle is real."... Continue Reading →
Judgment – Good vs Evil – Right & Wrong
Judge not, for judgment itself is a paradoxical construct. It is a recurring theme, a course humanity seems to study endlessly under various names—'judgment,' 'good versus evil,' 'right and wrong.' Yet, these concepts remain elusive, constantly shifting, as if they are but shadows cast by the limitations of our understanding. The first great challenge is... Continue Reading →
